Parent hard, play hard. That's my philosophy.

We were taught manners and we had to do our chores - Katie and I grew up as normal kids.

I have a box of things from Becca, my high school girlfriend, and Vanessa; and each one of them was love. I have the notes, the valentines, 20 mixed tapes, all of it. It's important to keep that stuff.

Personally, fame never really played any part in our family life.

I think we are defined as human beings through our families, no matter what kind of family - through our relationships with parents, brothers and sisters.

I discovered the 7th art at home when I was kid, through Charlie Chaplin's movies and those of my father who shot documentaries. He was my biggest influence. So I took his camera and started shooting.

I definitely, definitely want a family.

Millions of Indonesians who live with secrets in their family who have a sense of that kind of secret that their parents never told them, want to be told about what happened so they can know where they come from.