When I was a kid growing up, my dad being a football coach, he asked the same question of all the assistants that he ever hired: 'Is your goal to be a head football coach?'

With expectations, when you throw that stuff out there, when you put a bunch of pressure on yourself to reach those goals, you don't do anything different. You just keep working to get better.

When you have things taken away, you promise you'll never take anything for granted ever again.

I've always just tried to treat people with respect, build relationships with players and coaches... build a trust.